CHRISTOPHER COLASANTI: The Best Way
to Know God
phrase in a book on grieving that someone gave her after
her husband, Christopher Colasanti, was killed in the
World Trade Center attack has stayed with Kelly
Colasanti: "The best way to know God is to love many
Kelly and her two daughters went to Liberty State
Park, where a memorial wall has been set up for victims,
and she wrote, "Chris loved many things.
We love you. We miss you. You're with us."
It is a small tribute to the love of her life, to the
end of what friends and neighbors often cited as the
perfect family. Here are some of the moments and familiar
details that stick in her mind: Christopher grew up in
South Orange, N.J. and met Kelly in high school. They
went to the prom together. He graduated from Dartmouth
and became a trader at Cantor Fitzgerald. The young
family lived in Hoboken. The night before the attack, Mr.
Colasanti gave their girls, Cara and Lauren, their baths.
Then he showed Cara his baseball card collection. "We'll
be a strong family, the three of us," Kelly said. "We
have to live this way because he was so great. We can't
let it not be great here because it was so great."